Do you qualify to book a boudoir session? Heck yes, you do!

Do you HAVE to have a huge life event or significant other to gift your boudoir photos to? Do you have to have flawless skin and beach body fit life abs to be photographed. Not really...

Boudoir is about celebrating your sexy, feeling more confident, spending a day that is just about you getting pampered, reconnecting with yourself and feeling like the queen that you ARE.

And let me tell you, there doesn’t need to be a calendar event for any of what I just described. In fact…

I'm calling every woman out who thinks that their current situation disqualifies them from doing one of the most empowering things they may ever do for themselves.

Seriously - Why do we do that? Why are women so incredibly good at comparing, doubting, and disqualifying ourselves from doing the things we deserve out of fear, and self doubt.

Unfortunately, its a thing and I have no shame admitting that I am guilty of the same negative self talk.

So its easier to imagine booking a boudoir session as a gift for someone else than for ourselves. Or something that only other women get to experience. I get that. But is that really why you are here? For someone else?

Probably not.

You are here because something has compelled you to treat yourself and be free of your own limiting beliefs. Be it a little spontaneous or something you’ve dreamed and saved up for, now that its time to make it happen for YOU, are you feeling stuck?

Shake off the idea that boudoir is just a gift for him …

or something that prettier women, thinner women, women in their early 30’s, women without kids, women with powerhouse careers, or women who are happily married to the man that made all their dreams come true, get to receive. This isn’t about that, babe. Whatever your idealization of a worthier woman looks like I am going to tell you something. Ultimately, the only person that is disqualifying you from having this is you.

Every single woman I’ve ever photographed has had something holding them back, slowing them down, or getting in the way of their more confident self at some point in during their self love journey. But these things my friends are insecurities that we all have. They may look different when you describe them or put them on paper but it all adds up to one truth.

At some point every woman has sat down with themselves and contemplated in the same space where you may be right now -

Looking for the courage to experience this (whatever this is) for themselves. Looking for the innate ability to decipher what is self talk and what is just plain out right self sabotage. They had to get out of their own way, stop making excuses, stop beating themselves up over the delusion that they’ll never be worthy enough to receive this.

We are all the same kind of different. There is no sense in beating yourself up over the delusion that you could never be like her? Let yourself be inspired by the other women in these photographs. And, let yourself let go (even if its just briefly) so that you can become and become.

I want to photograph you. I want you to exist in a new space -

A space where you feel worthy, confident, and empowered to be your own kind of sexy and believe whole heatedly that you are beautiful.

That your insecurities DO NOT define you. Its time to celebrate you, babe.

If I didn’t truly believe that a boudoir photo shoot was so incredibly empowering. I probably would have settled for photographing other pretty things like flowers and princess ponies. But I’m not. I’m here pleading my case EVERY SINGLE DAY, trying to re work the mindset that beauty is by definition perfection. IT IS NOT. and if you think about it? Even the idea of the perfect woman has changed decade by decade. So (ahem, yes) I believe that EVERY women should exist in photos and feel incredibly sexy and empowered to be themselves every time they look back at them.

Pause, wait..

I am ready whenever you are.

Have you been putting off booking your very own Gilbert boudoir photography session?

Contact your boudoir photographer in Gilbert today. The Bella Jade Collection Portrait studio specializes in tastefully sexy boudoir photos serving women in Phoenix, Mesa, Gilbert, Chandler, Scottsdale and surrounding AZ valley. And we want to photograph you so that you can look back on your photos and feel inspired to love yourself unconditionally. Are you ready to feel amazing?