Feel Better About Getting Boudoir Photos | Best Phoenix Boudoir Photographer located in Old Town Scottsdale Arizona
Are you looking for ways to prepare for a boudoir photoshoot and feel better about getting your boudoir photos taken? As a Phoenix Boudoir Photographer for over 8 years, I can assure you that confidence is a product of boudoir, not a pre-requisite. But there are a few things you can do to ease your mind and feel better before walking into your boudoir shoot. It just may not be what you're thinking…
How to Feel better About Getting Boudoir Photos Taken:
Know your why and be true to yourself.
Why do you want to do something like this? This matters just as much as the final photos! Is it a gift for someone else? A gift to yourself? A celebration of a milestone? An act of self-love? To help you change the way you see yourself? A self-esteem boost? Start by thinking about how you want to be photographed and whether or not that vision aligns with your why. It may help to create a dream board of photos that inspire you, or outfit ideas that you think you’d feel good in! If you're unsure about what style you like best or what to wear, do not be afraid to ask for advice (whether it’s from your photographer or previous clients it will help tremendously!). We also offer plenty of resources that can help you plan for your session like The Boudoir Personality Quiz and our Boudoir Photoshoot Planner. Take advantage of them! As you begin planning for your boudoir shoot remember: the confidence gained from a boudoir session comes from realizing your own beauty, not from being someone entirely other than yourself. Embrace who you are and work with your strengths choosing things that make you feel your best, challenge you, and empower you.
Choose a boudoir photographer that is right for you!
When deciding on your photographer, check out their website, reviews, and recent work. Does it inspire you? Does it get you excited for what your own boudoir shoot could be like? Do you feel they can and have addressed your questions or concerns? Do your research before scheduling your session because finding the right photographer (or the wrong one) can greatly impact the overall experience and how you see yourself after viewing your photos. Having the support of your photographer/team and knowing that you’re in good hands ultimately will give you more confidence in doing a boudoir shoot. For that, make sure your photographer is someone you can connect with, trust to deliver amazing results, open to answering all of your questions, and make you feel seen and heard.
3. Voice your insecurities and inhibitions.
I realize that this one seems a little counterintuitive. It’s not. Be an advocate for yourself. At the end of the day you know yourself better than anyone. If there's something about this that makes you incredibly nervous, say it. Don’t be afraid to voice your insecurities and inhibitions, especially, when it comes to privacy.
Don’t want your private photos on social media? Not sure how to pose? Worried about showing that one thing about your body you are most self-conscious of? Trust me, the photographer who cares about you wants to know and they want to help!
If you book a shoot with us here at Bella Jade you’ll get a one-on-one consultation with the photographer before your session date. This is your time, babe. I can understand that bringing up insecurities sounds scary. However, it’s a great opportunity to work through them as a team, get in front of it, and create a plan that will ultimately help you feel better! Come the day of your shoot, you’ll feel more comfortable, and get to focus on the good stuff — like being yourself, feeling sexy, and having fun!